Hi loves, Ariel here. I find the regular terms for wedding dress codes to be vague, and no matter how much I google them I don’t know what they mean. I believe the best way to describe what I want using the usual terms is formal/festive (?) but who knows. So I’m going to use my own words.

Dress elevated, and in our color scheme!

By “elevated” I mean BOLD or REFINED. Not casual. Dressy footwear (although keep in mind we will be on grass). Nice fabrics like wool, velvet, chiffon, silk/satin, etc.

Do fashion, be extra, or go classic. Retro looks to go with the midcentury motor lodge setting are also encouraged if you’re into that.

We want everyone to dress in a way that makes them feel great. Bring a special, not-every-day version of self.

Wear the colors above. Mix/match, accessorize. Don’t wear your wedding dress caus that’s weird, but otherwise cream is fair game.

You are also allowed to wear black.

For the freaks, here’s an outfit inspo page.

Are you scared? Do you hate this? Wear a black or grey suit and tie with a white shirt and dress shoes. Breathe. Unclench. You’re Sean Connery.

Isaac says, “Do your best.”